Have you ever planned something with anyone and it didn't happen because the other person said, "I didn't have time." As you get older you begin to realize that that isn't the real answer.
What they are really telling you is this: What I actually ended up doing was more important to me than doing something with you!
To prove this I ask the question, "If someone were to give you ONE MILLION DOLLARS, tax-free with no strings attached, would you have shown up?" If they answer honestly, well the answer is yes. But then again, how many people can say, "I just didn't want to..."
What do you think?